Imagine a room full of people who are looking for people who could be his or her special partner for the moment, or possibly for the whole life. How would you see men going about their hunt? A man looks around, gets past those who failed his beauty sense and takes notice of those whom he finds attractive. Among those whom he identified as attractive, he will try to watch from afar and finally try to start a conversation.
The same is true with online dating sites. The only difference is that the playground has changed. So, what do you think is the minimum standard of men when it comes to choosing women from online dating sites?
Not too flashy but a beauty
Men like beautiful women. A man appreciates the beauty of the eyes of a woman and this is always a part of the criteria for men in choosing what they consider interesting women. Of course, beauty depends on the eyes of the beholder. What one considers beautiful may not be as much as for the other, still, it is what strikes a man first. Most men would prefer beauty that matches him, usually not flashy. If she’s flashy, chances are, she’s just for show or just meant to entertain him.
By general standards, if a man is flashy, then he would probably look for women who are fit for him the same way, otherwise, most men would target women who are simply beautiful. Those who target women who look like they are hookers are probably looking for hookers.
One who takes care of her body but not a Fashionista
Men notice how women take care of their body. Do they look clean or dirty? Are they classy or rugged? How is she up with the current fashion? Does she show much skin like she ran out of cloth or is she conservative enough to cover what should be covered? How a woman dresses up are being considered by men. They wanted to know if they can live with her fashion sense and if they can afford to finance her lifestyle when they get to be as one. Rarely would men pick fashionistas, unless they can afford one.
He does not require a genius but will prefer someone who is bright somehow
Men are not patient enough when it comes to talking or chatting with women who are not bright enough. They do not require a genius. A woman who can understand what they are saying or get the joke that they are telling will be much appreciated. If a simple thing cannot be understood, it will be a turn off. They do not require that she is too bright for them because their pride will be affected somehow. They do not want to be put in a situation where their brightness will have to be challenged, especially when they are the ones who are not bright enough.
Men prefer women who’s got a sense of humor
Humor is part of life. It is what makes life lighter and better. Without a sense of humor, life will be more stressful and more difficult to go through because of the seemingly endless stories that happen over the years. Rarely will a man target a woman who does not even smile in her pictures. He knows that if a woman has a sense of humor, his life will be more pleasant to live.
Men look for women who are mother-material
Being a mother-material would mean having the capacity to perform well like a mother: resourceful, caring, can teach, and apt to teach. A woman who cannot do such is usually a waste of time.
Men look for women who will appreciate them for what they (men) are
Men often do a lot to look presentable or liked by women. It is the desire of these men to be able to be accepted as they are. Not necessarily dirty or greasy. Some looks cannot be changed or improved upon.
Men do have their own minimum standard when it comes to online dating sites. They do not pick women with eyes covered. When they have already made the initial selection, they will continue to test the waters by chatting and getting to know how their hearts and minds work. They do not just pounce on any woman who would come their way. It may be an initial connection but further tests will surely be taken until their minimum standard is met substantially.