Sexting is the act of having sex through texting by using your imagination. It is like the chat sex of the late 90s using ICQ and YM. Texting was not available then. As SMS became readily available, you no longer had to be connected to the internet just to have sexual fun. Just like any other secret fun, you ought to be extra careful, or else…
Do wait for the right timing
You just cannot sext with anyone who just gave you a number. You have to test the waters, unless you were told so explicitly, “sext me, here is my number,” then by all means, what are you waiting for? If you are married and are trying to go sexting with another, that is a different story. If you do set with another, that is as well as infidelity.
Do not sext if you mean to do it live later
Sexting can be addicting and tiring at the same time. If you have put all your effort in sexting and still mean to do a live one a little later, you may be worse doing it live as sexting will only ruin your partner’s curiosity about how you perform.
Do make foreplay interesting
Being a tease is an important part of having a good foreplay. Just like in live sex, foreplay makes the performance more hot and lively. Sending a picture that does not show all the goods at once, usually starts the foreplay. Be creative if you want to have a lasting experience.
Do match your partner’s mood
Just as a good live sex, starting off slow and going with the flow along with thinking of your partner’s mood will make you align to the same wavelength. It is not a good idea to go ahead leaving your partner behind.
Do give and take
Have a live sex when only one is performing is not at all good. Both should have equal amounts of giving and taking. Both should be comfortable and getting enough satisfaction. If one is giving and the other is taking, all the time, do not expect another encounter later.
Do take a real interest
If you are really interested with your partner, you will make the effort to know what makes him/her engaged. Be detailed as much as possible. Ask how it feels; ask if it feels good, just like a live sex. Remember, you are playing with imagination.
Don’t sext when drunk
Alcohol impairs your judgment. It makes you do crazy stuff and you may regret it later. Some have sent pictures of their private parts to the wrong people. What if it was your boss, your mom, or your ex? You will be sending the wrong signals and you can cause others to rage. At any rate, it will never be good.
Do delete your tracks
Maybe you want to reminisce your earlier sexting experience so you just save everything on your phone. What if someone gets hold of your phone? If there is even a slight chance that someone else getting hold of your sexting experience will ruin something greater, like a real relationship. Make sure that you delete everything before someone blackmails you.
Be extra careful
It does not matter how much you trust the other person. Never send a picture with parts that can identify you like your face, tattoo, birthmarks, scars, etc. Always think that the other person may send your picture to others. What if it gets posted on the internet? Also, use a different number. Do not use the same number that your family, boss, co-workers, friends, or clients know about. If you are into sexting, you should have a number just for this purpose. This way, nothing can be traced even if your sext partners tell the world about you.
Do sext one at a time
Don’t think that you can multi-task with more than one sext partner at the same time without getting confused. The mood of one is different from the other. It will only ruin your own mood. Instead of steadily graduating from one level to another, you will be halted by the current mood of the other. Apart from the great possibility of getting confused, you may not enjoy at all.
The sexton had evolved when mobile phone companies had incorporated SMS and it got fairly cheap to play with. People can now have sex even without the internet and they can do it while in bed, without the danger of getting STD or pregnant. Still, there are rules to follow, to make the most out of it yet with least damage done.