When women see your online dating profile, what do they see? Just like a person applying for a job whose resume is the forefront of the person’s totality in a gist, the content of your profile somehow tells a women whether you are a candidate for future dates or not. While it is unfair to judge a person by his/her profile alone, it is a fact that the profile is the first thing to go through the elimination process. Once your profile makes it to the possible list of candidates, you may make it to the next level, that of chatting/communication. If your profile does not have what it takes to attract others, then maybe it is time to change your profile to make it more appealing without straying away from the truth. If still no one is getting in touch with you, it may be because the right person has not seen your profile yet. After all, it takes two to tango. If you are mismatched then what is the point of these sites, that cater to people who are looking for a match?
Age matters unless something else comes stronger
The first criteria women look for is the age. He should not be too young or too old. If he is just like her age or just a little older, it is fine. Being a little older than the woman is the best age because men are expected to be somehow, able to guide, protect and care for the women. While it is not always the case, this is the general idea. Of course, while some women can push their independence and some men can be proud of their capacity to guide, protect and care even at a younger age. So if you are too old or too young for the woman you are eying at, chances are, you will be ignored, unless something else comes stronger like your source of income (CEO of a well-known company), your physical looks (too handsome despite the old age), your accomplishments (academic or skills) or hobbies (probably same as hers or something else that she finds interesting.
Income matters, to provide for her and her whims
Most women would prefer a guy who is financially sound. Having a stable job, at least, will suffice for most but if there is more, the better are the chances of being selected. Some women set this criteria aside, mainly because they have their own money, or they are used to practical living and what matters more to them is the character and personality. If a woman has whims, like being a Shopaholic for branded items or someone who accessorizes always, she will look for someone who can give her what she wants. Some women make the hunt just to reach their dream of owning certain things like a house, travel the world and enjoy life’s pleasures. Can you provide that?
Personality matters but character matters more
Your personality is shown through your profile, depending on how you fill it up. Women easily get an idea of your whole being, through your profile. If your profile passes her first glance and you get to chat, talk and communicate in various ways, she gets to know whether your personality matches the character that she has in her mind. The character is never seen easily, it is tested over time. It is what you do when no else sees you. If you are caught telling a lie, even if it is just a white lie, you are losing points to her heart. Do not reason that everybody lies. Many do but some do not, even to the point of getting hurt. People are still looking for that kind of person.
A woman scrutinizes the profiles of men she sees. The 3 main criteria they look into are age, income and personality. Once these 3 passes her scrutiny, you get a chance to chat with her and get to know each other more. If your profile is empty, it very well shouts out that you are lazy, even if you only mean to be mysterious. Take a note that the reason you are a part of the online dating site is to find someone and that you will also be found. An scarcely empty profile is like saying you are not really in the hunt and are wasting everyone else’s time. Make your stay worthwhile and be counted. Give some time to brush up your profile without telling a lie.