Traditional women know where they are supposed to stand. They know that it should be the men who are going after them and not the other way around. There are times when they already feel something special for a particular man but their conscience dictates that they should not be the ones to make the first move. All they can do is send signals or hints that say, “Yes, you are the one I like but don’t make me tell you that. Come and rescue me from my insanity!” As a man, you should be aware of the signs and hints and act accordingly.
1. She will avoid appearing to be needy
She knows that men like the challenge of the one being the hunter instead of being hunted. She knows that men do not like clingy women so she will avoid appearing to be needy. Instead, she might give you a hint that her friend just bailed her out of a weekend party so that makes her weekend free.
2. She will enjoy being single while waiting for your move
She knows that when she enjoys her singlehood, her natural hard-to-get feature will come out without making an effort. She will be joining group events but will not be with any particular man. She will just enjoy life as it comes to her. She will even make the effort of taking interest in more people regardless of gender just to make her busy schedule credible. If there is a group that you can join where she has joined, do so, and just enjoy the company of all the people in the group. It will give you both the chance to know each other without stressing yourself to impress. When it is taking you more time to approach her, she is getting more attached to the idea that she wants you.
3. She will be vague when answering your questions
When you ask her questions, she will not answer you direct to the point. Instead, she will be vague in order to leave you guessing or wondering and in the end you will be thinking more about her. If you ask her how her weekend was, she will probably answer that she was with some friends, or if you ask if she is going to be busy the coming weekend, she may answer she does not know yet. Notice how she says it. If it is with a smile, she is probably giving you a hint that she is just playing hard to get.
4. She will make herself usually unavailable
When you call her, she will not answer. When you text her, it will take time before she will reply. Do not take this negatively. It is just her way of telling you that her time is precious so you have to do something to make that precious time worth spending, when she finally answers to your calls or agree to have a date with you. When you ask her on a date, she will not be readily available as well. She will say ‘maybe’ and check her schedule. At least, it is not a blatant ‘never’ as others get when she is really not interested.
5. She is a free spirit
As she knows that men do not like clingy women, she likewise does not like clingy men. If there are clingy men around, she will do everything to get away from them. So never be that clingy man. Make yourself busy as well so she can see that you have something worthwhile to do in your life and are not just trying to catch up on her. Prevent yourself from calling often or emailing her when she has not responded to your previous emails. Show yourself as a busy person. Show her that you have other priorities in life to be successful, other than just trying to be in her shadow.
6. She will not rush into a relationship
When you finally have her to agree to date with you once or twice, she will let you know that she is dating other guys but will reassure you that you are getting a higher score over them. She will make sure not to give you everything you want right away because she knows you will lose the challenge of the relationship so do not expect her to kiss you right away.
7. She will reward you along the way
From time to time she will assure you that you are not wasting your time. She may text you that she had a great date and maybe you can do it again next time. She might also give you a peck when you least expect it. Hang on, you’re close.
Most women know that playing hard to get will give them the edge to catch men’s attention. Focus on the signs and hints she may be throwing at you. You might be the one she is waiting for but she would never be the one to tell you.